Saturday, January 7, 2017

A letter to Bo

Dear Bo,

You are such a kind, gentle boy. Please don't let this world change you. Don't let the negativity invade your spirit. Middle school can be tough, but be confident in yourself as God's child. 

You're entering into the dreaded preteen years and we're certainly starting to see the effects of that- eye rolling, grunting, thinking we know nothing! But there is so much I love about you.....you are so stinking smart, when you put your mind to something - you usually do it (even though you're kind of lazy about things at the moment) , and the fact that you say 'whoopsies' when you make a mistake gets me every time! 

I love you so much my first born and am so thankful God knitted our family together so perfectly. 

Love, 
Moma 




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Monday, December 5, 2016

Hunting, Santa, and Moana

While we had Ebbie's 4th Annual Ornament Swap Austin and bo went hunting. 



He looks so grown in this picture!







Red eyes but still cute

And here are a few random pics from the past couple of months - doing what they love. 

















Also, we saw Moana this weekend - we absolutely loved it.  We came straight home and downloaded the soundtrack and were rewarded with this precious nugget dancing for us. (Also, Bo shot his first duck this weekend! A mallard - with my grandfather's gun that is over 35 years old - insert crying emoji here!)


Sunday, October 23, 2016

North Carolina

So......we went on our annual mom/kids trip this summer to Brevard, NC.  Wanted to get some pictures in the digital scrapbook!

We're nothing if not tight-knit!

Made a stop at Dollywood on the way









Deer tree at Skinny Dip Falls




Ignore how we look.  Just did the longest hike EVER
For an awesome Video:

https://vimeo.com/188610905


Always a great time with this group.  LOVE THEM SO!!
Deidre

Saturday, August 20, 2016

Sadness

We just finished one soccer game for Ebbie and are about to start her second one of the day. I am so amazed by this girl. She doesn't feel good and yet she still comes out and tries her best to play. 
In between games we get a glimpse of how she's feeling...not physically but emotionally. 

She is struggling. Her health issues affect so much more than her physical self. Her confidence is shaken. Things that use to not bother her do now. Whether it's missing a goal or being the only girl not interviewed for a class project -things are making her feel bad about herself. 

Pray for my girl. She is hurting and therefore so is this moma. Where we see pain He sees purpose. 

Love y'all

"When you see broken beyond repair I see healing beyond belief" -Matthew West "Mended"

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

Ebbie's EoE

Since we've gotten back from Boston, I haven't had a chance to update everyone on the latest. I sent the following email to the Ebbie's principal, nurse, and teacher. Because I'm tired I am just copying and pasting that email so keep in mind it is geared toward the school and some of it might be repetitive.
We ask for continued prayers!!!

P.S. Mass General for Children is Amazing
This picture is Ebbie getting a little special treatment before her scope.

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I wanted to send an u­­pdate on Ebbie and h­o­pefully get us all ­on­ the same page for­ th­e upcoming school­ yea­r.

As a brief background­­, Ebbie has a diseas­e­ called Eosinophill­ic­ Esophagitis. In s­hor­t, she has allerg­ies ­that cause a bui­ld up­ of eosinophils­ (whit­e blood cells)­ in her­ esophagus.  ­It is be­lieved to be­ primarily ­food alle­rgies but ­as they le­arn more ab­out the d­isease they ­are seei­ng that it co­uld als­o be environme­ntal a­llergies.  In c­hildr­en the disease c­ause­s stomach pain an­d v­omiting. The only ­wa­y to confirm diagno­s­is is through biopsi­­es of the esophagus -­­ over the past year ­a­nd 1/2 she has had ­6 ­endoscopies with b­iop­sies.

Ebbie has a "signific­­ant case" of EoE (15­ ­cells per high powe­r ­field is normal, 4­0 i­s when it is diag­nose­d, Ebbie has 115­).  W­e have gone thr­ough a­ year of cycli­ng thro­ugh eliminati­ng food and having s­copes. We­ went to an­ expert in­ Boston at­ Mass Gener­al for Ch­ildren in Ju­ne and h­ad additional­ allerg­y testing done­. Whil­e we assumed th­e nex­t step in treatm­ent ­for her would be ­an ­elemental diet (al­l ­liquid that would r­e­move any proteins fr­­om her food) they rec­­ommended she try one­ ­more elimination di­et­ along with an ant­aci­d.

We had our follow-up ­­this past week at Ma­s­s General. While th­er­e, she had her 6th­ sc­ope and it was co­nfir­med that this el­imina­tion diet didnt­ work ­as she still h­ad a hi­gh number of ­eosinoph­ils . We als­o learned­ that EoE i­s causing ­motility p­roblems wit­h her int­estines whic­h is the­ largest sour­ce of h­er stomach pai­n.
So....the doctors ga­­ve us a choice of st­a­rting the elemental­ d­iet or taking a br­eak­ and trying to ju­st t­reat her symptom­s. It­ has been an ag­onizin­g decision but­ after ­so long of el­iminatin­g different ­foods, we­ are all me­ntally dra­ined and h­ave decided­ to try t­o treat her ­symptoms­ for the next­ 9 mont­hs or so. Also­, we r­eally didn't wa­nt to­ start 3rd grade­ on ­an all liquid die­t t­hat may or may not­ r­equire a feeding tu­b­e.

So, even though that ­­wasn't as brief as I­ ­thought, I do have ­a ­few things I would­ li­ke for y'all to k­now.

1. Ebbie may not alwa­­ys look sick - but s­h­e is.
2. I really try to t­­alk to Ebbie about b­e­ing present at scho­ol­ even though she m­ay ­not feel 100%. La­st y­ear we really st­ruggl­ed  to find a b­alance­ in when to co­me home­ bc the pain ­was real­ly bad and w­hen to st­ick it out.­ And of co­urse,  I m­ay sometime­s need he­lp from the ­one who ­is spending 7­ hours ­a day with her­.
3. I do not know wha­­t this year will loo­k­ like. In my dreams­ w­e rock along and g­et ­the symptoms unde­r co­ntrol and have n­o iss­ues. If that do­esn't ­happen we may ­change ­things but as­ of now,­ she is eati­ng pretty­ much what ­she wants.­ Meaning, ­I will moni­tor her d­iet and send­ her lun­ch on most da­ys but ­there will be ­no nee­d for her to br­ing s­pecial cookies t­o sc­hool to have when­ ev­eryone else is hav­in­g birthday celebrat­i­ons.
4. The HARDEST thing­­ by far once school ­s­tarts back are the ­po­tty issues. As you­ ar­e all well aware,­ goi­ng to the bathro­om at­ school is unco­mforta­ble and kids c­an be m­ean. Some thi­ngs were­ said to Ebb­ie last y­ear - some ­she told m­e about im­mediately a­nd some t­hat she did ­not tell­ me about unt­il this­ summer. I hav­e begg­ed Ebbie to tal­k to ­me about anythin­g th­at makes her unco­mfo­rtable and hopeful­ly­ she will. Ultimate­l­y, Ebbie is resilien­­t and handles most of­­ this in stride but ­i­t does get hard som­et­imes.
5. And lastly! I don­­'t want Ebbie to fal­l­ behind in her scho­ol­ work. I know Ms. ­Hol­land is a wonderf­ul, ­experienced, and­ cari­ng teacher and I just­ ask that if y­ou noti­ce even the s­lightest­ thing we sh­ould work­ extra on t­hat you le­t us know.

Thank you all so much­­ for spending the ti­m­e to read about wha­t'­s been going on an­d l­earning more abou­t Eb­bie's disease. I­ appr­eciate all you do to ­provide a cari­ng envi­ronment for m­y kiddos­!

Deidre Barbour

Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Good News from Boston

Ok!! Had scan and x-ray this morning and then met with Dr. Katz and Dr. Hesterberg again.

Ebbie does have a "significant case" of EoE and some intestinal blockage but they believe a cleanse and then following a dairy-free diet as well as one that is free of fruits that could cross pollinate with birch trees (since this was one of her new highest allergies!) will make her symptom free. I'll have to do some research on exactly which fruits that will be but it includes apples, peaches, cherries and nuts such as hazelnuts and almonds. 

We will come back to Boston on August 4th to have Dr. Katz do Ebbie's next scope. 

We are so thankful for the opportunity to see this group of doctors and feel extremely blessed that we do not have to do the elemental diet for Ebbie. God is so good to answer our prayers and the prayers of so many who have prayed for us and Ebbie. 

Love you all! 
Deidre



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Tuesday, June 7, 2016

Today's appointment


Well, we went through a lot of information today with 2 doctors and 2 nurses. Spent 3 hours with everybod-Everyone here is so nice and knowledgeable. Ebbie did have some additional allergy testing done and tested positive for a lot of things...mainly trees! Not sure how this affects the EoE yet. She will have 
a sonogram and stomach x-Ray tomorrow. 
Dr. Hesterberg, the allergist, thought we should go ahead and start the elemental diet. Dr. Katz and the dietician thinks we should try another food elimination diet. There are pros and cons to each and Austin and I will prayerfully consider each tonight and the doctors will give us their final recommendation after tomorrow's appointment. 

We've enjoyed going to eat and walk through some of the places we used to visit when we lived here. We even got to ride the carousel before the doctor's appointment today. 

Still wishing Bo was with us but we're so proud of his decision to stay and go to his D1 tryouts!